If They are not Ready, You are not Ready

With the assumption that you have read and dived into the world of Twin Flames and have an idea of some of the basic concepts, we springboard here to the beautiful place where you transition to accepting your growth into physical separation. You are never truly separate from you twin as you are infinitely tied to them at the soul level and can access communication with them if you so choose to do so through meditation or other means. You begin to surrender to the acceptance that they do not belong to you.  That these intense feelings are for your expansion and not romantic, as your ego believes.  That does not mean it cannot become romantic.  Romance is not the purpose.  The purpose is your transformation.  They push all the right buttons to help crack open ego and expose the true you that is reflected in your mirror.

What you see in them is what is in you.  All the criticisms, all the frustrations you have in your twin, is in you.  Where are you lying to yourself? What are you running from? If you are still angry and suffering, begin to shift perspectives.  Pick one thing a day and begin to change how you look at it.  They lied about this one specific thing! Why?! What is it representing in me!? Begin to be grateful for it and accept it as a gift, a lesson, a stepping stone to you, the true you. Smile as you understand the true deep meaning behind the lie.  I don't have that answers, no psychic, guide, nor guru have the answers, they are found in you. Take time with each lesson.  Do not judge yourself if the lesson comes back into your mind.  Recognize their intensity and focus on lowering them over time.  There is no time frame, time does not exist.  As you release the lessons, they are helping you and in turn, helping the you in the mirror.

You are not waiting for them, you are waiting for you.  You think you are evolved and spiritual and more attuned, you are not. Their lack of readiness is your lack of readiness.  Their masks are your masks.  I invite you to begin to release the blame and find the major themes of anger and frustration, sadness and suffering that you feel your twin is making you feel.  Recognize wholeheartedly that these are themes you must work on within you.  Recognize they are a mirror.  I know you have read it before.  You understand it intellectually.  You need to embody the understanding of mirror and sit in this understanding with your heart, your mind, and your soul.  Hold your hands to your heart and affirm:

I recognize my mirror
I recognize my lessons
I accept the gifts
I am grateful for this experience
I release my previous perspectives, with love and compassion
Thank you